When they get the feeling they need to run, their words and actions are full of mixed messages. They won’t allow the relationship to grow and they have no intentions of ever doing so.24.
They can be moody or aloof and blame the woman for why they're acting so bizarrely.25.
They are fast to move in on a woman they are attracted to.
This is because they subtly want to give the woman the message that they don’t want a long term, committed relationship.7. They can’t make the decision to give totally to the relationship, but they can’t commit to walk away either. They feel love for the woman when they don’t see her, but they want to run away when they become involved again.8. This may happen after one night, one week, one month, three months or one year.
They may start sabotaging just as they are about to get married, or just before or after there's a decision made to move in together.9.
They spin stories to justify their contradictory behavior.
And when the woman threatens to leave the relationship, they may make promises to change, but they never do.10.
They like to feel in control and create time frames that suit them, often treating the woman like a puppet on a string.20.
They don’t like structure, particularly in their personal life.21.There's often an excuse that they haven’t met the right woman, or they justify their history by saying they still have plenty of time to settle down as they can have children at any age. If they have been married it's likely to have been for a short time.Or, if they have been in a long term relationship or marriage, they will usually have a history of infidelity.3.They avoid events or outings that may include the woman's family or friends.18.They know an ongoing sexual relationship often leads to commitment, so they choose to run when things start to head in that direction.19.They tend to treat the woman like a mistress rather than a real girlfriend.11.