So if he was smart, he didn't pick the same kind of woman twice, if he did then he is a fool.But, if he picked a different kind of woman, then maybe he was the problem.I was divorced twice - the first after that husband broke my nose and teeth. Drug addiction, infidelity and violence in the first marriage that I did not know about when I married him, and for the second, a terrible temper that evolved after he started drinking excessively which was not occurring prior to the marriage.
If she turns out to be difficult, dramatic, or a messy problem person and you find yourself thinking, "Ah. I'd totally divorce her, too."..you'll know, won't you?
After all, you can quit the relationship at any time. In this case, going slow also means taking your time before becoming part of her child's life. If she is the sort to be like, "date me, date my kid" and expect you to come to the Birthday party at Chuck E Cheese on the third date...maybe urge her to take it slower.
Two isn't necessarily a "killer" number, it seems high to me for him to be in his thirties, but I think it is clearly something you should keep on your mind.
He may be the kind of guy that is scared to be by himself, so he married women to assure companionship; He could need to have a "mama figure" around so he gets married; he could be the kind of guy that thinks he's in love with love and every woman he sleeps with he proposes to.
Like you two need to figure out if you are really compatible, before you assume it's going to be a long term relationship, and you shouldn't become part of her kid's life until you have some idea of that, in my opinion.
Stability (as much as possible) is better for kids.Either way - I think this guy probably makes bad decisions or he doesn't have his act together.There could be any number of reasons that he has been married and divorced twice, I'm only hitting on few.There is too much to being married to try and go through that two or three times.Now, this is just a lot of the guys I know, 35 to 45, professional, various levels of education, most of us married, no bums living at home with mama! The other part though, is this: When this guy got married once and it didn't work out, he turned around and did it again UNSUCCESFULLY!Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.